MISSION GULF…WHAT I FELT

Reflections on My Year in the UAE

As I neared the completion of my Bachelor's degree, a mix of thoughts and concerns occupied my mind. I was anxious about my career, my family, and my future—feelings that were not unique to me, but shared by many of my peers who were about to transition from student life to the professional world. The market, it seemed, was in need of experienced professionals, and there were few opportunities for fresh graduates, especially those without strong recommendations. The hard work of several years of study often seemed overshadowed by the looming uncertainty, and most of us were left asking, "What’s next?"

My plan, however, was clear. I had mentally prepared myself to move to the Gulf. Discussions about future plans were common among my fellow graduates, and during one such conversation, I mentioned, "I’m planning to go to Dubai." Some of my friends dismissed it as a joke and suggested, “Why don’t you try Australia, the UK, Canada, or the USA instead?” I was familiar with these countries and their student life, but their question didn’t surprise me. In our society, the Gulf is still often viewed in a negative light. Many believe that only the unqualified go to the Gulf and that educated individuals should aim for Europe or the Americas.

In recent years, the UAE has evolved to rival developed nations, with its rapidly growing economy and impressive projects attracting people from around the world. It’s time to challenge the misconceptions about the Gulf. This region is not just a place for temporary work; it is an opportunity to earn money, invest, and contribute to the development of one’s home country. The Gulf is not just for the unskilled—professionals from all fields can make it their target.

I arrived in the UAE in July, when temperatures soared to around 50°C. I entered on a visit visa, ready to start my career. I faced multiple interviews, learning something from each one. Every employer seemed to prioritize "Gulf experience," which led me to miss out on some good opportunities. I eventually found a job, though I’m still unsure about the true meaning of “Gulf experience.” Is it about simply living in the Gulf, or is it about working in the region’s industries? If I ever figure it out, I’ll be sure to let you know.

The initial days here weren’t easy, not because of the new surroundings or people, but because of the misconceptions many expatriates had about Nepal. To them, Nepal was often seen as a "country of laborers," a place with few skilled professionals. Some even mistakenly thought Nepal was part of India. While I can’t change everyone’s perception, I have worked to shift the views of those I interact with. Many in our society are unaware that the UAE offers numerous opportunities for educated and skilled individuals.

One thing that disheartens me is how, when a non-Nepali criticizes our country, many of us simply nod along, instead of standing up for our heritage. This stems from a lack of knowledge about Nepal’s rich history. We have so much to be proud of: a history of independence when both our neighboring giants were under British rule, the contributions of Nepali soldiers to peacekeeping worldwide, and the reputation of Nepalis as calm, sincere, peace-loving, and brave. History proves that Nepalis do not interfere in others’ matters but fiercely defend their own.

Nepal is the birthplace of Gautam Buddha, Sita, and King Janak—our history is intertwined with greatness. We have Mount Everest, the tallest mountain in the world, and eight of the top ten peaks. We boast second-largest water resources globally, after Brazil, and a diverse range of animals, plants, cultures, and languages. Nepal is truly a divine gift, and we should all take pride in being Nepali.

Advice for Those Considering Working Abroad:

For those thinking of moving to the UAE or any Gulf country before pursuing a Master’s degree, there are several benefits. First, you gain international experience, which many countries require when issuing visas. Second, you’ll earn money and won’t have to rely on your family to fund your studies. Third, if you land a job in your field in the Gulf, it will improve your chances of securing a position elsewhere when you eventually pursue further studies. These experiences will help you adapt to professional life.

Advice for Those Already in the Gulf:

If you want a good job and salary, it’s crucial to have computer knowledge, as well as proficiency in English and, if possible, Arabic. Before leaving your home country, ensure you know exactly what job you’re being hired for. I’ve seen many workers who invested a significant amount to come here, only to end up with low-paying jobs that are different from what they were promised. They can’t protest, and they can’t afford to go back home due to the debt they’ve incurred. For them, life in the Gulf becomes a gilded cage—appealing from the outside, but harsh on the inside.

Many people work extremely hard here, yet are hesitant to spend even a single dirham on their health or well-being. Accommodation is expensive, and many workers share rooms with 10 to 20 people. Their families and neighbors see only the money they send back, unaware of the sacrifices and struggles they endure. This reality is not unique to Nepalese workers—it’s a common experience for many nationals.

Our country’s current situation is driving many people to seek work abroad. However, before you go, be well-prepared. Don’t assume that you can easily change employers if you’re dissatisfied with your job. Changing companies requires an NOC (No Objection Certificate), which is difficult to obtain. Breaching your contract can result in penalties, including a ban from working for six months to a year. You also can’t work multiple jobs or receive overtime pay in many companies. Make sure to research all the details about your destination before pursuing your dream in the Gulf.

There are many Nepalese societies in the UAE that work for the welfare of the community here, but I’m not yet in contact with any of them. Perhaps that’s because I’m still new to the UAE. It’s important for these organizations to provide training and guidance to help Nepalese workers navigate life in the Gulf and assist those who are already here.

In Conclusion:

It’s true that when you’re far from home, you miss it the most. But life is uncertain, and we must learn to adapt to new circumstances. My time in the Gulf has made me realize that I can survive anywhere. This experience will undoubtedly help me in the future.